Addendum: Extra Materials & Methodology For Study on
Male LGBT Athletes at Haverford
Study conducted by
Damon Motz-Story Ô16
STUDENT-ATHLETE ADVISORY
COMMITTEE STATEMENT ON DIVERSITY
"Following
the Honor CodeÕs ideals of trust, concern and respect, we as student-athletes
will create a community invested in diversity across differences of race,
sexual orientation, gender and religion. We will maintain an open and safe
environment by making Haverford community members and beyond feel respected on
and off the field."
DATA COLLECTION:
I interviewed 15
people who are members of a menÕs varsity team at Haverford College and asked
about their team dynamics and demographics. I interviewed at least one person
from each all-male varsity team,[1] and
I sought out students from all four class years with a
diverse range of identities including race, religion, and nationality. Out of
the fifteen interviewees, most responded with ÒnoÓ to the question ÒAre there
any openly gay/bi/queer members of your team at Haverford (that you know of)?Ó
It became clear over the course of conversation that those who responded ÒyesÓ
were referring to the same individual, although one respondent said that there
were multiple openly queer students while others from the same team said that
there was only one. For the sake of trying to appeal to the only consistency I
found among the data, I have erred on the side of concluding that out of 200
male varsity athletes listed on the 2015-2016 rosters on www.haverfordathletics.com, only one player on our menÕs
varsity teams openly identifies as gay, bisexual, or queer. Based on my own
experiences in queer spaces at Haverford, I estimate that at least 8% of
Haverford students overall identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or
queer.
The following
excerpts of questions and answers were taken directly from transcripts of
interviews with the 15 Haverford menÕs varsity athletes I talked with. A few
interviewees did not wish to be quoted for the article. Quoted segments have
been randomized and are not always pulled from all interviewees. Each
collection of quotes and paraphrased responses comes from a variety of
different teams.
Would
your team be welcoming of openly gay or queer members, and why or why not?
ÒThereÕd
be a moment of Ôwow how did I not know?Õ And there might be a little discomfort
at the start [especially in the locker room]...the first few days might be
[startling] but ultimately it wouldnÕt change anything...like Ôyou like guys?
ThatÕs your thingÕ...people are gonna do what they wanna do and as long as theyÕre not hurting anyone [itÕs
fine].Ó
ÒA
change would have to happen and then people would get used to it. Over time I
think things would be okay.Ó
Things
have been very accepting and supportive of the one openly queer member of the
team (paraphrased).
Team
talks a lot about women and their attractiveness (paraphrased). ÒPeople would
fall over themselves to be accommodating but [it would be treated as unusual].Ó
Ò[In
the past, many team members were] at least slightly homophobic, certainly using
the terms Ôgay,Õ ÔsoftÕ (frequently synonymously with ÔgayÕ) was something I
saw a lot...I didnÕt speak up [but] certainly didnÕt support it...I donÕt feel
that a student [back then] who was openly queer would have done well or been
comfortable on the team, there would have been a lot of discomfort on both
sides...I definitely see a change in the thought process when people say things
now.Ó
ÒI
think the team has the intention of being welcoming, but not the commitment to
inform themselves on what words or actions could be offensive or uncomfortable
for gay or queer members...I tend to notice...blatantly heteronormative
behaviors coming from the team, and I think that it reflects that this need for
heteronormativity and Òbro-inessÓ
is almost fundamental to the team identity as it has been at Haverford, which
really worries me...What bothers me most is that I do not think that my
captains, or the whole team, would be open to actually devoting a significant
amount of time to changing the teamÕs culture to being more accepting if that
means changing any of its fundamental traditions or behaviors.Ó
ÒSport
tends to be very masculine or bro-y...generally people kind of masking any sort
of emotion considered not-manly and openly identifying as LGBT kind of falls
under that umbrella...I also think thereÕs definitely a language issue where
sports players, fans, and coaches will use homophobic or hurtful language quite
openly and not see that as a problem and not really conceiving that potentially
one of their players [could be affected by that]. I think thatÕs certainly a
problem...My coach [at Haverford] is certainly well-intentioned but not the
best...heÕs certainly used some derogatory language about LGBT people and
minorities...quite openly, I donÕt think he thinks anything of it...nobody
feels that they have the authority [to do something about it]...IÕm not really
sure how to fix that to be honest.Ó
How often does your team, in casual
contexts, talk/joke about sexuality?
ÒPeople...tend
to assume that everyone is heterosexual, and thus feel comfortable being
jokingly flirty or touchy with many of the other members of the team all of the
time.Ó
Sometimes
the team jokes about being gay but not in a super aggressive way (paraphrased).
ÒLast
year, almost every day...I think people think that they can separate those
words from what they actually mean...I donÕt think theyÕre trying to be
offensive...itÕs just an ignorance thing. IÕm not saying itÕs alright but
theyÕre not thinking itÕs a direct attack...Sometimes there can be a
disconnect...Last year maybe once a week...but I think itÕs starting to become
better.Ó
Sexuality
is talked about in a more academic context rather than in a joking manner (paraphrased).
ÒPeople
will still say ÔheÕs gayÕ or ÔthatÕs gayÕ...IÕve consciously tried so hard to
step away from it cause I know itÕs a bad image, I really try not to say that
anymore...I know I may have drunkenly said it once or twice last year...but now
I donÕt say it at all...itÕs so hurtful and not right.Ó Things have gotten much
better this year and more people are calling each other out for that kind of
language (paraphrased).
Queerness comes up in a philosophical context and other
academic-like conversations. Not really joked about (paraphrased).
In your opinion, are there any
benefits to having gay/bi/queer members of an athletic team, and if so, what
are they? Or, does sexual orientation make no difference to the success of your
team?
ÒI donÕt think your sexuality
affects how you play. It doesnÕt make a difference...I donÕt think it should
have an affect. Ó
ÒI
would say that one benefit to having gay/bi/queer members of an athletic team
could be that it would give people a better community of support within the
team, just as having someone of your own race or gender would also do. I do not
think that peopleÕs sexuality makes a difference in terms of athletic
performance, in the sense that I would be happy to [play alongside] someone of
any sexual identity.Ó
ÒWe
treat everyone to the value of their character, we wouldnÕt treat anyone
differently because of something about them.Ó
ÒI
guess it brings new diversity to the team...personally since coming out, IÕve
felt more connected to the team.Ó
ÒIt
would definitely make a difference...I donÕt think most kids have grown up
having an openly gay teammate for whatever reason, and IÕm sure in many cases
itÕs because people donÕt feel comfortable...I think what would be most
beneficial would be to have [PAF-like sessions] for teams.Ó
In your opinion, how well are
gay/bi/queer students regarded at Haverford College generally?
ÒI think as a whole itÕs an
accepting place...I still know itÕs not an easy place to be a queer
student...itÕs already a small school and itÕs an even smaller queer
population...itÕs not ideal.Ó
Overall
yes, but Òeveryone knows everyone, so maybe somebody would be less inclined [to
come out]Ó because of the lack of anonymity (partially paraphrased).
ÒIt
feels as if people are accepting, as long as they donÕt have to know about it,
although I could be misperceiving it.Ó
Additional Comments:
Ò[The
reason for the lack of queer male athletes] could start with the recruitment
process and the coachÕs eye for playersÉ[prospective students come] to campus
and [mingle] with the team talking to the coach as much as possible and I
think...a lot of the time the coach is frequently talking to players about how
they like the [prospective] student...and sometimes straight up asking us how
cool the person is...and thatÕs just another step of [the] recruiting process
for my coach...through the playersÕ and through the coachÕs view of the
prospective playerÕs personality and how they carry themselves and interact
with the team is a really big indicator of how theyÕll fit with the
team...coach makes [recruiting] decisions slightly based on that.Ó
ÒEveryone
whoÕs coming to college [varsity athletics] needs to be playing in high school,
get recognition from really good coaches in college and thatÕs really where the
recruiting process starts so if you look at the college teams, all these
players were really talented in high school and if someone for whatever reason
wasnÕt...able...to join their high school team or didnÕt feel comfortable on it...what
chance do they have to join a college team. [Walking on] is really not possible
at Haverford [for my sport].Ó
If you could change one thing about
male athletic culture, what would it be? This could be unrelated to issues of
sexuality (answers are mostly paraphrased for brevity).
Insularity.
Less trash talking, more respectful
language and positivity, sportsmanship.
Reckless drunken behavior that can be destructive to others
and excluding to teammates who donÕt want to drink.
The machismo. Anything that shuts people out or shuts out a
particular way of thinking. Any requirement for people to
have a certain amount of masculinity to be fully accepted on a team.
Greater supportiveness when athletes make mistakes rather
than excessive anger about a bad moment on the field/court. More emphasis on
positivity and learning produces better results in my experience. ÒFear is some
of the worst [expletive] that happens in sports...you should be excited by the
challenge but never fearful of a team.Ó
[1] I chose not to include
Cricket because as a coed team, it does not represent an exclusively male space
with assumptions that heterosexuality means being attracted to women.